Parent and Carer Relationships

“Children need their parents in their lives – one way or the other”

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Children and young people in care who have good relationships with their parents and family have better outcomes – no matter how long they are in care.

When parents are able to achieve greater levels of inclusion, especially with workers and carers acknowledgement of parents’ importance, there are good results for them and their children.

Key messages from research and practice in support of family inclusion:

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Children and young people benefit when they can see parents and carers getting along well together

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Relaxed family time together, including time at each other’s houses and shared events, is very supportive of children and contributes positively to stability for children

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Many children leave care (no matter what the legal order), lonely and isolated from family and social support

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Many parents and family experience disrespectful and abusive practice from the child protection and out of home care system

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Children and young people benefit when their parents and family are treated with respect and are actively included in their lives

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Good relationships between parents and carers lead to more successful restorations and better long term outcomes

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Children and young people in care want and need a relationship with their parents and other family 

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Being placed in care is inherently traumatic for children and young people

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All families have strengths

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Family inclusion is consistent with NSW government policy

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There is no evidence that family contact supervision and written family contact reports adds any value to children’s experience of their time with their family and some evidence that it may make things hardericy

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Children need their families to have ongoing involvement in their lives no matter what the legal order 

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Children need their families to have ongoing involvement in their lives no matter what the legal order 

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Parents worry deeply about their children in care – getting to know carers and having good relationships with their children can help

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When carers have judgemental attitudes towards parents this is harmful for children and damages relationships

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Family inclusion is consistent with the NSW child safe and permanent care standards

 

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